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December 28, 2009

The 3rd Child

This year, I decided to take my sister-in-law's lead and start a new Christmas gift tradition for my kids.  Since I've failed miserably at keeping up with any kind of photo albums or scrapbooks for my 2nd and 3rd child, I decided to start making them each a photo book every year at Christmas time.  One that would capture the highlights of the previous year, and be all about them.

It was quite the undertaking, and took me a few late nights at the computer to accomplish.  On the back of each book, I wrote a dedication to each of them and had planned on including a small photo of them and their mommy.  It worked out fine for Jenna's and Kara's books, but when it came time to finish Jack's book there was only one problem ... out of the thousands of photos I had taken from the previous year, I had NOT ONE photo of Jack and I alone together!  Not one!

So, I now present you with what is sure to be the first of many, many photos I intentionally pose for with Jack this year.


No way am I going to let myself be "that mom" that neglects the photographic history of her last-born child!

December 26, 2009

The Best Things About Christmas ...

The best things about Christmas are ....

spending time with the people you love,


giving and receiving special homemade gifts ...

seeing which gifts become the "favorite of the year" ...


and watching their expressions as they unwrap their treasures.
But the best gifts aren't the ones we wrap or unwrap ... they're moments like these, when we're all together ...

December 14, 2009

The Lunch Table

Twenty two years ago a scared little freshman girl walked into the lunchroom on her first day of highschool.  She didn't know anybody in her lunch period, and was forced to walk around, cafeteria tray in hand, and find a table to sit at.  As luck would have it, she found a table of a few freshman girls that happened to have an empty seat.  I don't recall exactly what she said, but she asked if she could join the group for lunch.  She feared the response she would get and knew that it could have been ugly.  She could have chosen a table full of snobs that would shun her and make her feel even more alone.  But that wasn't the case at all.  She chose the right table indeed, and the rest as they say, was history.

She would spend the next four years getting to know those girls and their grade school friends, and becoming a part of their group.  The five of them spent their highschool years together, and maintained their friendship through college.  They were by each other's sides through boyfriends, break-ups, moves, job changes, family crisis, engagements, weddings, pregnancies and births.  They stuck together through moves that put a few of them across the country or, at times, across the ocean.  As the years went on, their get-togethers became fewer, and more time would pass between them, but they never stopped.  And when they would happen, it was like no time had passed at all.

Twenty two years after she took that long walk up to her lunch table, she sat and watched one of her best friends take her own long walk down the aisle.  And she thanked God for that fateful day that she chose the right lunch table to sit at.

Brett's wedding - December 12, 2009
me, Ellen, Michelle, Corinne and Heather

November 26, 2009

With Thanksgiving

“Gratitude is the inward feeling of kindness received. Thankfulness is the natural impulse to express that feeling. Thanksgiving is the following of that impulse.”
Henry VanDyke (1852-1933)

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Nobody in the world is more impulsive than a child.  No child in the world is more impulsive than when he or she is at church.  My children are no exception!

I'm happy to say that for the last 1-1/2 years or so, we have become pretty regular church-goers.  Shortly after we moved here, we found a church and parish that we love.  Never before have we felt so welcome, and so much a part of a church community. 

While Jack may still go to the nursery instead of mass on most occasions, the girls have been doing wonderfully when they attend mass with us.  They're beginning to pick up bits and pieces of the mass, prayers and songs that are followed on a weekly basis.  One particular part of our church's mass that I love comes right before Communion.  While the Eucharistic Ministers are heading up to the altar to recieve Communion, the music group has everyone begin singing a little song each and every week.  The girls have heard it often enough, and it is a simple enough song, that they know it by heart.  They'll sing along, and it's so darned cute to hear!  Kara, in particular, has a loud and slightly off-key voice that sounds just darling ... people are always turning around to look at her and smile while she's singing.  She's even received a few compliments from our neighbors at church!

Lord prepare me,
to be a sanctuary.
Pure and holy,
tried and true.

With thanksgiving
I'll be a living,
sanctuary
for you.

So today, as I think about Thanksgiving and all of the things that I have to be thankful for, I just can't help but think of this song in my head.  I'm thankful for my family, my children, my friends, my home, my job, my community, my church ... and for the fact that my children feel comfortable enough around here to sing their little hearts out.

November 20, 2009

A Thanksgiving program to remember

Today was Kara's Thanksgiving program at school.  For weeks her class has been working on making scarecrow hats, decorations and snacks, and learning the songs and poems that they would perform for their audience.

About 3 days ago, Kara mentioned that she didn't want to wear the hat she made.

About 2 days ago, Kara mentioned that she didn't want to go up on the stage.

Yesterday, Kara mentioned that she didn't want to sing OR smile.

Last night, we had a heart-to-heart at bedtime.  I told her how mommy goes to each and every show at school, so very excited to see her little girl perform.  I sit in the audience each time, just waiting to get a peek at my baby, and hoping that she'll participate in her show.  Mommy assured Kara that there was no need to worry about performing in front of a big crowd, because each and every mommy and daddy would only be watching their special little girl or boy.

So today came, and off to school we went.  Kara was in a pleasant mood when I dropped her off, and she willingly put on her little hat and posed for a class photo.  So far, so good!


I took my seat in the auditorium with high hopes, but low expectations.  Enter the two classes, with about 30 preschoolers.  Child-by-child, they climbed up on to the stage wearing their darling little scarecrow hats and darling little smiles.  I held my breath as Kara entered the room.  She walked right up to the stage!  She took her place!  She smiled and waved at me!


And the performance just got better and better from there.  Not only did she smile throughout, but she sang and did all of the actions ... she recited the poems, and kept waving to her mommy and Jack in the audience.  She even gave us several "thumbs up" signs, and signed "I love you".



Never have I been so proud.  My baby girl did it!  Kara was in her first school program, without any complaints, resistance or tears.  It was truly a Thanksgiving program to remember!

November 15, 2009

"American Girl"*

* for the record, I can't even proceed with this post without belting out the Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers tune. It was like the soundtrack to my day, playing in my head on repeat .... so in order to get the full effect, you'll need to get the song in your head as well ...


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For about two years now, Grandma M has been anxious to continue her time-honored tradition with her youngest granddaughters.  One that began years ago when her first granddaughter Jill reached the appropriate age.  The tradition lived on with Johanna and Chloe, and Kara and Jenna were to be next. 

For about two years now, I've been telling Grandma M that my girls just weren't ready.  They weren't old enough to understand, nor appreciate the monetary value behind a toy.  I knew of what I spoke.  I had witnessed the baby doll carnage in our house for the past several years.  Dolls in various stages of nakedness lay strewn about our house, or heaped together in awkward piles inside our doll basket.  Unloved.  Unfed.  Undiapered.  Neglected.  Dirty and naked. 

Despite previous history and experience, I knew that the day would inevitably come, so I had to get my girls prepared.  We got on the catalog mailing list, and began looking at each issue as if our very existance depended on it.  Catalogs were manhandled, fought over, read and re-read, written all over with circles and initials where each girl had staked their territory and marked their fancies.  I cultivated this voracious appetite for the finer things in life, until I was certain that I had pre-conditioned them to the appropriate level of doll lust.  I could see it in their eyes, I could feel it in the air.  My girls were ready!

So on a beautiful fall Saturday afternoon, we trekked up to Grandma's house, picked her up, and continued our long and arduous journey to Chicago.  With mounting anticipation, we arrived on Michigan Avenue and proceeded down the long blocks of the Magnificent Mile ... until we saw it in the distance.  The red awning beckoned to us, and we knew we had arrived!




After what seemed like a sweet forever, we finally parked the car and got into Watertower Place.  My first priority was looking at the directory to scope out where we were going to eat our lunch (mama has her priorities), so I missed what Grandma M called her favorite memory of the day:  the girls' first look at the American Girl store, and the awe and wonder on their faces.  Luckily, I did turn around in time to witness the cuteness of them staring into the store with their little faces pressed up against the windows.



Once inside, we met Auntie Mar and cousin Lily, and began our shopping experience.  We looked at everything:  Bitty Babies, Just Like You Dolls, and the traditional American Girls.



It didn't take Jenna long to zero in on her choice.  Her months of careful research and consideration payed off!  She headed right over to the shelf, and selected her first American Girl doll ... Julie!  The joy on her face says it all ... she couldn't be more in love with her "girl".




Kara wasn't as lucky.  After racing from doll to doll and section to section, we pretty quickly determined that she was still too young to make such an important decision.  I think I could actually see the relief on her face when I suggested that we wait a bit longer, until she's old enough to make a decision.  Perhaps mommy might have layed on the Even she was stressed about the finality of such an important desicion!  She was perfectly happy to pick out a stuffed animal doggie and call it a day.  I feared that she would change her mind as soon as we left, but she still hasn't!

American Girl store was all I thought it would be, and more.  It was ridiculously crowded and hot, and despite the fact that the merchandise was expensive, people were walking around with HUGE carry bags of goodies to purchase.  The lines were long and the whole experience was kind of a bit over-stimulating for this easily rattled mama.  But do you know what?  I'll never forget the day, and I'm almost secretly looking forward to returning there in the spring for a birthday tea party for the girls.  Almost.



Smile!

Tooth number 3 is outta here!



We're expecting #4 and #5 to follow soon!



Stay tuned!

November 10, 2009

Happy Birthday!

Happy birthday to you ....



Happy birthday to you ...



Happy birthday dear grandma,



Happy birthday to you!



p.s. thanks for letting us eat ALL of your birthday dessert!


October 31, 2009

Halloween '09

The three little kids were dressed for fun,
for Halloween had finally come!

The candy was bought
and the costumes were picked,
mommy grabbed her camera
and click-click-clicked!

Jenna chose to be a kitty in black,
with ears, nose and whiskers,
and a tail in the back.


A hula girl is what Kara chose,
so she dressed in flowers and leis
from her head to her toes.


Jack was a firefighter,
as cute as can be.
His favorite part?  The dalmation,
as you can see.



Trick-or-treat time!  The best part of the day.
Gathering candy at the neighbors',
running all the way!





Happy Halloween!

October 27, 2009

Fall Family Photos

I'm so excited I can hardly contain myself!

Today I picked up a CD filled with photos that my amazing friend Melanie took of our family a couple of weeks ago. The photos are awesome, and I can hardly wait to get started on our Christmas cards. (yes, Christmas cards ... this year, I'm going to try to be that annoying person that sends out their cards first. You know, the one that you get the day after Thanksgiving? Yep that's gonna be me, baby!)

So, for those of you on our Christmas card list:
close your eyes and don't look at the photos below so that you can be surprised on November 27th when this bad boy hits your mailbox!  But don't worry if you can't help but take a look, because these aren't the actual photos I chose for our cards.  Yep, these are the rejects ... and they're still that good!

And for anyone local to our area, let me know if you need a referral for a talented, affordable photographer!















October 15, 2009

Is it just me?


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Or am I the luckiest mommy in the world?